You asked:
I want to start exploring anal play but have no idea where to begin. Any tips or must-haves for a total beginner? Also... can I just use lotion as lube or is that a bad idea? Thanks.
Grace:
If you’re just getting into anal, the b-Vibe Anal Training Kit is an excellent starting point. It has everything you'll need to kick things off (except lube) and three high quality plugs, as well as educational materials to answer any questions you have. It is great value and just makes the whole thing way less intimidating.
And yeah... don’t use lotion. You’ll want a proper anal-safe lube like Sliquid Sassy. It’s thicker, longer-lasting, and made for exactly this. Your butt deserves better.