You asked:
Hey, I’m new to toys and not sure where to begin. Should I get a butt plug or a dildo first?
Grace:
The biggest difference between plugs and dildos (apart from their obvious size difference), is how they are played with. Dildos are good for a masturbation session as they need to be held in place or thrusted, whilst plugs can be worn for extended peroids. This tends to give plugs more versatility, and this, coupled with the fact that plugs are typically smaller and more catered to beginners, makes them my pick here. Plus, wearing them will help "train" your anus, which will help you take dildos too.
I'd suggest starting with b-Vibe’s Anal Training Kit. It’s perfect for beginners because it comes with three different plugs, plus educational resources to guide you, extra equipment you may not realise you need, and the quality is excellent for the price. Make sure to also grab a bottle of Sliquid Sassy while you're at it, since lube is the one thing this kit doesn't come with.
And when you are ready to try out a dildo, I'd highly recommend the Dillio Curious Five. It's slim, smooth and tapered, making it perfect for anal beginners, plus the suction cup makes it great for hands-free play.