You asked:
I’ve been with my girlfriend for four months, and while our sex life is amazing, she’s never had an orgasm, not even on her own. She enjoys clitoral stimulation much more than penetration, and I’m thinking of introducing a toy to help her explore that. What clitoral toy would you recommend for someone new to this? And what is the difference between clit suckers vs vibrators? I heard the Magic Wand Rechargeable is great, but it is slightly out of our budget.
Grace:
Vibrators and clit suckers feel very different. A wand like the Magic Wand will give broad, rumbly vibrations, whilst suckers use suction and pulsing that feels much more intense and pinpoint. Suckers are typically more of a solo toy, whereas wands and other clit vibrators will be easier to use as a couple, which might help you decide. Price can also play a role, with suckers generally being less expensive than wands.
The one thing they have in common? Both these options make great choices for someone who has never experienced a clitoral orgasm. If she has never used a sex toy at all before then you might not need much for it to happen, but if this is a gift and you want to make you're getting her something with enough kick, then these are certainly some of the strongest clitoral toys available.
You mentioned the Magic Wand Rechargeable being just out of your budget, but how about the Magic Wand Plus instead? It's much cheaper despite featuring the same vibrations, the trade off is just that it has no patterns and will need to be plugged in. Alternatively, for clit suckers most people start with the INYA Rose, which is even cheaper still and has a reputation for helping people achieve their first big O.