How to use a bullet vibrator like a real sexplorer

They say good things come in small packages, and when it comes to bullet vibrators, they’re not wrong. The petite sex toy packs a punch, and it's discrete enough to pop into your pocket. I play with my bullet vibrator solo and with my partner, so my toy gets plenty of use. 

Bullet vibrator basics

As the name suggests, the bullet vibrator is bullet-shaped. Most feature a tapered tip - perfect for precise stimulation in all the right places.

The bullet is small, smooth, and easy to use.

If you’ve never used a bullet before, or are relatively new to the world of sex toys, the bullet vibrator is a great starting point.

The controls are simple enough and you can pleasure yourself in all sorts of ways.

Creative ways to use a bullet vibrator

How to use a bullet vibrator alone

If you’re using your bullet vibrator to masturbate it’s tempting to go straight for the clit, but don’t underestimate the ways you can utilize your new toy.

The bullet can be used to stimulate other erogenous zones too.

I often use it to tease my nipples and titillate the inner thigh area and I like to run it over my butt too (my rear entrance is particularly sensitive).

As a sex-positive female, I love my sex toys, particularly my bullet vibrator, but why should vagina owners have all the fun?

Penis owners can get busy with a bullet vibrator too.

Touching the tip of the vibe on the nipples, and inner thighs provides pulsating pleasure, and the perineum (the thin layer of skin between the penis and anus) and cock are obvious hot spots.

Use the bullet pre wank or stimulate the cock with it until you shoot your load. 

Most people use the tip of the vibrating bullet to tease various areas of the body and the genitals, but turning the bullet on its side provides a different sensation.

Using the toy horizontally enables it to cover a larger surface area. Rub the toy along your skin and genitals to maximize vibrations and boost pleasure levels. 

Playing solo is always good fun, but using the bullet vibrator with your partner can prove very enlightening too. 

How to use a bullet vibrator with a partner

Sex toys are great learning tools, you can masturbate in front of your partner to give them an indication of what turns you on.

You could even masturbate in front of one another – you’ll need two bullet vibrators (one each) to make this work.

Race to see who can cum first or turn the game on its head and see who can hold out the longest!

As well as mutual masturbation, you can also use your bullet vibrator to spice up foreplay with your lover. 

Use the bullet vibrator to toy with your partner, tracing it over their body and taking it close to their genitals, but not quite touching to begin with.

Take time to build the excitement and enjoy watching your partner squirm and beg for more. 

Combine with other toys

You can take things up a notch by using two sex toys at the same time. Pair the bullet vibrator with a G-spot dildo for a heady combination of G-spot and clitty arousal.

Alternatively, add some cool back door pleasure into the mix by inserting metal butt plugs or string of anal beads.

Try clenching and releasing your butt cheeks to heighten pulsations. 

Using bullet vibrator during oral

The bullet vibrator can be used to enrich sex too, be it oral, vaginal, or anal.

If you and your other half like to go down on one another the bullet vibrator can heighten oral sex.

Rub it along the shaft and balls while you suck and lick his cock, or take it further and pleasure his perineum while you give him head. 

Get your partner to return the favor by lapping at your pussy while they use the bullet vibrator to excite your nipples and stimulate your clitty.

You’ll be squirting before you know it.

Using bullet vibrators during penetrative sex

Boost vaginal and anal penetrative sex with the sex toy too. If you’re fucking your partner, use the bullet vibrator to arouse other erogenous zones as you thrust or ride. 

Getting kinky with it

My partner and I like to get kinky from time to time, and the bullet vibrator can be used to great effect when teamed with bondage.

It goes without saying you need to discuss sex acts and BDSM acts upfront before you play. 

Consent is key – always define expectations, boundaries, and safe words/signals before you kick things off. 

Being tied and teased can be very intoxicating.

My partner uses leather handcuffs or bondage tape to restrain my wrists and ankles and sometimes pulls a hood over my head too.

I can’t move and I can’t see, but I can feel the bullet vibrator as it snakes across my naked flesh.

He touches my titties delicately, teases me between the legs, and generally torments me until I’m sopping wet and desperate to cum. 

Top tips for using a bullet vibrator 

All sex toys are better with lube, and the bullet vibrator is no exception.

Lubricant ensures the toy glides and slides over your pussy with ease and will enhance your pleasure.

Water-based sex lubricants work well with all toys, and silicone sex lubricants are a good choice for plastic bullets. 

Once you’ve used your bullet vibrator give your toy a thorough clean.

Warm water and liquid soap should do the trick, but you can use a specialist sex toy cleaner if you prefer. Wash your vibrator and then dry it completely, before packing it away for your next solo or partner session. 

Read How do I clean and maintain my sex toys?

Ready to fire your bullet?

If you’ve not tried bullet vibrators yet it’s high time you did.

Vagina and penis owners can fully utilize this versatile toy for masturbation, foreplay, or to enhance sex.

Tease, toy, and torment yourself and your lover with this pocket rocket and you won’t be disappointed. 

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