Strap-on sets

Do I need to buy a harness and dildo separately, or does a kit include everything?

A strap-on kit is designed to give you a matched, ready-to-use set. Most kits include the harness, at least one dildo with a compatible flared base, and the O-ring or O-ring set needed to secure it. Some kits also include a storage pouch or a second dildo in a different size. Always check the product listing to confirm exactly what is in the box before purchasing.

What harness style is best for beginners?

A two-strap or jockstrap-style harness is a popular starting point because it is easy to put on, adjust, and remove. Full-back briefs or boxer-style harnesses offer more coverage and can feel more secure for some wearers. If you are unsure, choose a kit with wide adjustable straps and a broad size range so you can dial in the fit without any experience needed.

Is the dildo in a strap-on kit safe to use anally as well as vaginally?

Any dildo used anally must have a flared base wide enough to prevent it from being drawn inside the body. Most dildos included in strap-on kits are designed with a flat, wide base specifically to sit in the O-ring, which means they typically meet this safety requirement. Always confirm the base dimensions before anal use, and clean the toy thoroughly between different types of use or between partners.

What type of lubricant should I use with a silicone dildo?

Use a water-based lubricant with silicone toys. Silicone-based lubricants can degrade the surface of silicone dildos over time, which can affect both the feel of the toy and its hygienic properties. Water-based lubes are compatible with all harness materials and condoms, making them the safest and most versatile choice for strap-on play.

Will my order arrive in discreet packaging?

Yes. All orders from The Sex Shed are shipped in plain, unmarked outer packaging with no indication of the contents on the outside. The sender name on the label is generic and will not identify the nature of your purchase. If you have specific questions about packaging or delivery, our customer care team is happy to help before you order.