How to use a dildo?


Dildos are like golden children of sex toys that everyone knows and talks about if they don’t (yet) use them.


These sex toys can fill any void, fantasy, and hole, so it is no surprise why they’re in almost everyone’s drawers.


Dildos are often confused with vibrators, but there is one big (and obvious) difference between them - even in their names - dildos mostly don’t vibrate.


But that doesn’t mean they can’t do everything else - satisfying you is their primary job.



What is a dildo?  


A dildo is a phallic-shaped sex toy created for penetration and any other sexual action. Dildos often resemble a human penis and have veins, pronounced heads, skin color, and testicles. 


But they are also available in various shapes, styles, lengths, girths, materials, colors, and textures.


One huge misconception about dildos is that their sole purpose is to replace the penis. Lifelike dildos, commonly used by those who want to experience real sex with a replica of a human penis, serve this purpose.


But other models are designed to give sexual pleasure and stimulate their users. Dildos aren't reserved only for cisgender lesbians’ fun - anyone, regardless of their genitals, orientation, or gender, can use and enjoy them.


Types of dildos to choose from. 


Realistic dildos are designed to resemble a biological penis with skin color, testicles, pronounced head, and texture. They are available in different sizes and styles and are ideal for those who want a realistic dildo-penis experience.


Strap-on dildos come either with a harness so the wearer can fasten it around their legs and waist or with underwear so the giver can wear it. With a dildo attached to them, they can please their partner with penetration, pegging, or other sexual activity. 


Now you can even get a strapless dildo that goes in the wearer's vagina - giver holds and uses it with their pelvic floor muscles. Another option is a dildo for a double penetration that can be attached to the wearer’s penis or dildo so the giver can penetrate the vagina and anus together. 


Glass dildos are made from safe and strong borosilicate glass that can’t break and harm you during use! These sex toys offer hard and firm stimulation and are perfect for temperature play as you can warm or cool them.


Vibrating dildos are equipped with vibrating functions, so they can spoil you with buzzing stimulations. They have a built-in vibration mechanism or can be used with remote control. 

 

Anal dildos are specially designed for anal play and are available in various shapes, sizes, and materials. They have a wide base or handle at the end to stop them from getting lost in your rectum.


Suction cup dildos are like regular dildos but with a suction cup base so you can attach them on flat and sturdy surfaces or objects. You can use them on the floor, walls, chairs, in the shower and discover hands-free fun and orgasms. 


Squirting dildos look like a realistic dildo and come with a big and squirting surprise - they mimic ejaculation. Those toys have a reservoir inside that can be filled with water, lubricant, or other liquid. During the play and simply pressing a button, the toy will cum for you, on you, or inside of you.


Squirting dildos look like realistic dildos and have a big, squirting surprise - they can mimic ejaculation. These toys have a tank reservoir inside that can be filled with water, lubricant, or other liquid. Press a special button on the toy while playing, and the dildo will squirt for you. 


Double-ended dildos are versatile toys that can be used in many ways. They usually come with a long shaft with two pronounced heads at both ends. Double-ended dildos are perfect for double fun, and two people can enjoy them at the same time. Some types are flexible and suitable for one person who can insert them into the anus and vagina. 


Dildos are not strictly reserved for people with a vagina. These popular sex toys can be enjoyed by everyone, including people with penises. Penis owners can use a dildo to stimulate the prostate, which brings a lot of pleasure and intense orgasms.


The anus is a huge erogenous zone, so discover and tease it, regardless of your gender, sexual orientation, or genitals.


Choose a dildo with a base - anal dildos and strap-ons are great for anal play. Try them together with the preferred lubricant, and get ready for mind-blowing orgasms.


  

Tips on using a dildo. 


  1. Try solo. It is normal to be nervous if you have never used a dildo or if you experiment with different shapes, sizes, or types. Many prefer to try and explore their sex toys on their own, so don’t feel guilty if you want to test your toys by yourself first. 
  2. Help yourself with lubricant. Lube is always a must-have-and-use when it comes to sex toys. It will make you and your toys wet, slippery, and ready for penetration. Water-based lube is always a good choice!
  3. Clean the dildo. And we mean, clean it before and after each use to protect yourself and your toy. Wash it after every session and get rid of anything left after the party (sweat, body juices, cum dirt). Rinse it with warm water and dry the dildo before you start playing to wash away dust and air pollution. 
  4. Start slow. When enjoying solo or with a partner, there should be no rush or pressure. If you are testing a new toy and don't know its capabilities and functions, take your time and enjoy it slowly.
  5. Introduce other toys. Dildos work great on their own, but they also like the company of other sex toys. Try your dildo together with cock ring, masturbator, clitoral or suction vibrator, butt plug, and get ready for an amazing experience!

How to use a dildo solo?

 

Solo fun with a dildo is exciting, stimulating and can bring you intense, even multiple orgasms! However, it may seem a little intimidating at first, so help yourself with our tips:

  1. Clean it: Before the action, wash and dry the dildo to make sure it is safe and healthy to use.
  2. Meet your dildo: Touch your toy, check it and befriend it.
  3. Lube: It will help you stay wet and make your toy ready.
  4. Play with yourself: First, prepare for the dildo and warm your body and mind until you can no longer wait to use your toy.
  5. Experiment: try different techniques like thrusting, turning, quick in-and-out, short and swallow and discover what feels the best.
  6. Change position: Don’t be afraid to go to your knees, lie on your stomach, or stand up when using a dildo. Everyone has their preferences, and a different position can enhance the whole experience.
  7. Double pleasure: Using a clitoral vibrator or butt plug can make a big (and wet) difference when playing with a dildo.

How to use dildo with a partner? 

 

Sharing a dildo with a partner or lover will definitely make your day (or night). Your partner can either hold a toy or put on a strap-on dildo and please you. 


Those magic toys can become your regular guest in the bedroom - there are so many options and different types of dildos that you may want to try them all.


Choose a dildo together. If you don’t already have a dildo ready for action, pick your toy together. You can decide which one you want to try, and the whole buying process can be an exciting and fun experience.


Yes, lube! Don’t forget to buy a bottle of lubricant that will prepare the toy for hours of fun. Check the dildo materials and pick up the right lubricant — water-based type suit all sex toys, while silicone-based lube can damage your dildo if it’s made of silicone.


Foreplay. You have a toy and lubricant, so you two love birds are ready to go. Let the dildo wait for the action and enjoy some foreplay and intimate fun to make the receiver really excited!


Be gentle. Everyone is different, so starting slowly and gently while playing with a new toy is always a smart move. The giver can use a dildo to discover their partner's body and be aware of their sensations and reactions.


Communicate. We assume that the donor can’t read the mind, so receiver should tell them if dildo feels good, or something is off.


Have fun. Dildos and other sex toys can make your sex life more fun and enjoyable, so experiment with them and discover what excites you!


Sex positions with a dildo. 


Here are our favorite sex positions that will make you enjoy your dildo even more:


Double trouble

The spooning position is loved by many as it allows you to be close and intimate with your partner.  But spooning with two penises will serve you another level of pleasure! Your partner can enter from behind while you penetrate your vagina with the selected dildo. Add a smaller clitoral vibrator, and you’ll be in heaven!


Eat & Ride

Dildos with suction cups have been designed to give you hands-free fun and let you enjoy something else with your hands. Sit on the toy, grab your partner for booty and enjoy them orally. They will have a private show, watching you how you ride a dildo, which may stimulate you even more.


Lap strap-on dance

The partner wearing the strap-on can relax on the chair while you sit on their dildo. They can play with your clitoris or penis and let you control the rhythm and movements. This position allows you to use other sex toys such as clitoral vibrators, magic wands or masturbators, and cock rings.


Dildo style

Try the classic doggy style with a dildo, and go on all fours. Your partner

can penetrate you from behind with a dildo in their hand or with a strap-on. Enjoy the intercourse while teasing yourself with your fingers, hand, or other sex toys.


Your partner can use a squirting dildo and cum inside you, or try an anal dildo and stimulate your booty.



Creative ideas for using a dildo.


Everyone plays with dildos as they like, but our tips can inspire you to try something new and spicy:


Double penetration.

If you’ve ever dreamed of double penetration, dildos can make it happen! You can use two dildos or play with one dildo and butt plugs, other anal sex toys, or with your fingers.


If you play with your lover, they can double penetrate you with dildos, anal sex toys, and their naughty hands.


Temperature play.

Glass and stainless dildos were born to change and keep temperature. 

Put them in a bowl of warm or cold water and discover how your body responds to heat changes.


Safety first: Before placing the toy anywhere, check the temperature of the dildo.


Fill yourself.

You can enjoy your dildo without using, holding, or moving it at all! Insert your dildo and leave it there while teasing the clitoris or anus.


Enjoy a feeling of fullness that will motivate you while you play with yourself. If you feel very naughty, take two dildos and insert one into the vagina and the other into the anus.


Where to store your dildo? 


Before you even think to put away your dildo, make sure it is clean and dry. Never store your toys dirty or wet if you love yourself and want to stay healthy because bacteria or even mold can develop on them.


To choose the best cleaning routine for your dildo, check its material and use the correct procedure. Most dildos can be washed with warm water and soap. Dildos made of glass, silicone, and stainless steel can be cleaned in the dishwasher or with boiling water. 


Be careful with vibrating dildos that you don't damage them during cleaning. Once the dildo is washed, let it air dry or clean it with a clean towel or cloth. When completely dry, store the dildo in a bag or storage box.


Once you have stored your toy safely, place it in a dry and nice place with no wet, greasy surfaces near them.


We recommend fabric sealing bags that can be properly closed to protect your toy from dust, bacteria, and air pollution. Buy washable bags that you can clean and wash.




How to choose a dildo? 


Buying a first or new dildo may seem like rocket science because there are too many choices. The following hints can make your search easier:


  • Material: Select toys made from body-safe and non-porous materials that can be properly cleaned and don't invite bacteria.
  • Size: This is a personal decision, but it is better to start with smaller toys and continue to the top.
  • Price: You get what you pay for - which means the cheapest toys shouldn’t be your first choice. Remember, quality sex toys will last longer with proper care.
  • Type: Explore different types of dildos and find the right one (or two, three, or even more) for yourself.

 


Where to buy a dildo?


There are many factors to consider when buying a dildo - safe materials, proper production processes, sizes, types, shapes, even colors, and other details. 


It is also important where you buy the new toy. Choose a responsible shop like ours that offers quality, safe and diverse dildos. Check out our page and pick the best toy for your taste.



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