I have a very compliant slave, affectionately known as Dirtbag.
Dirtbag visits each Friday to clean my home, and he does it all with a smile and while wearing a cock cage. Dirtbag’s cock has been caged for thirty days, and I take great delight in tormenting him.
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If you like the idea of chastity cage play, keep reading to discover chastity cage ideas, tips, and games for the adventurous.
Choosing the right chastity cage
Chastity cages come in various designs and materials, and with so many on the market, it can be hard to choose the right one.
You’ll need to consider comfort, hygiene, security, and how long the cock will be locked to find the right match.
If you’re new to chastity cages, a plastic cage is a good option.
Lightweight and easy to wear, this type of cage can be locked on for reasonable amounts of time without too much discomfort.
Plastic isn’t the most durable material, so the cage won’t last forever, but it’s a great first stop on your chastity journey. Plastic cages need to be cleaned regularly; the nature of the material means the cage can retain moisture, so cleaning is a must.
Another good option for beginners is the silicone chastity cage. The silicone cage is easy to clean, flexible, and comfy to wear, so you won’t feel too bound and restricted.
For some, this works well, but others prefer a more secure and solid chastity experience, and this takes us nicely on to the metal cage.
If you’re looking for a solid cage that will securely clasp your cock the metal chastity cage could be right up your street.
Made from stainless steel and built to last, metal cages are weighty and impossible to ignore! They are also easy to clean and look after, so metal cages work well as a long-term chastity option.
On the downside, metal cages can be chilly on the skin, and you’ll have to take care as you stroll through the security gates – you could set off the metal detectors!
The importance of communication, safety and hygiene
Before you start locking any cocks away in cages you need to talk openly about chastity.
This is the time to discuss what you’re both comfortable with and to outline expectations.
If you’ve not engaged in chastity before, it will be hard to know what to expect until you give it a go, so try a cage for size, just to see how it feels.
You’ll also need to set boundaries, and it’s worth identifying a safe word too. If you decide to go down the chastity route and need to get your cage off in an emergency, a safe word is a quick way to ensure a speedy release.
Cages also come with a level of responsibility on both sides.
The key holder needs to ensure safe keeping of the key, and the cage wearer should have access to an emergency key too, just in case.
Dirtbag has one, it’s in a fun break in an emergency glass fronted box, so I’ll know if he opens it, and if it’s not an emergency he’s going to be in a whole heap of trouble.
Attention to hygiene is a must too. Dirtbag is expected to keep his cage and cock clean to avoid germs and infection. If he experiences discomfort or the cage rubs too much he is expected to check in and let me know. Whilst I enjoy making him suffer, I do not want him scarred for life!
Games to play with chastity cages
There’s more to chastity than simply locking a dick away in a cage.
You can make chastity more interesting by incorporating fun elements, including surprises, challenges, rewards, and consequences.
I often incorporate dice to seal Dirtbag’s fate.
Before I secure his cock, I make Dirtbag roll a dice or two to see how many days he’s going to be locked up for. If Dirtbag rolls a low number, I usually multiply it by two or three, and I sometimes randomly do that if he rolls a high number too, just for kicks!
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If I’m feeling particularly mean I use one of those high number dice you get with role-play games, with multiple sides. They are great if you want to torment the cage wearer even more.
If you don’t have any dice to hand, you can make your own fate game with pieces of paper.
Write on a few rewards and consequences e.g. five extra days in chastity, five minutes of freedom to wank etc. Regardless of what they draw, you can make things go your way - what seems like a reward can easily be turned into a consequence.
I like to torment Dirtbag by offering him the chance of five minutes of freedom to wank if he completes a set task, such as cleaning my boots or scrubbing my toilet. Even if he does a good job, I usually reduce the time from five minutes to two, purely for amusement.
As he unlocks his cage I smirk and mention that if he doesn’t manage to cum within two minutes, I’ll add five days onto his chastity. I love watching him strain and struggle to shoot his load in time, and if he does, I’ll get him to clean up his own spunk with his tongue.
Incorporating chastity into other BDSM play
Chastity lends itself well to power play, and as the key holder, you get to be in charge (providing you adhere to the cage holder's boundaries).
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You can incorporate BDSM into the mix to take the play up a notch. Bondage restraints can be great fun, secure your sub’s wrists and ankles and use a bondage blindfold on them, with the cock cage secured too they will feel even more helpless and vulnerable.
Impact play toys can also be used to torment a caged sub.
I like to bend Dirtbag over a spanking bench before paddling his bare butt. I usually force him to open his legs wide so I can see the tip of the cage dangling between his legs.
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Occasionally, I’ll gently swing the paddle upward so it catches the cage slightly. I know this makes him wince and worry, which makes me smile all the more.
Short term vs long term chastity
Short term chastity is the way to go if you're new to being caged, but some need more and crave long-term chastity.
Being locked up 24/7 allows for full submission and isn’t for the faint hearted.
After all, the wearer will still need to live a functional life, so public urinals and communal showers might become more of a challenge!
Locked up and loving it
If you’re keen to try chastity cages, why not give it a go?
As a key holder, I relish the power of seeing Dirtbag’s worm (as we like to call it) locked in its cage and unable to rise. I always remind him of the importance of keeping his cage and cock clean, and he is expected to check in every day to let me know both he and his worm are ok.
He’s locked up and loving it, and so am I.